
I regret to inform everyone of the passing of my favorite pair of jeans.
These jeans came to me about 5 years ago, free, from the "giveaway table" at work. Miraculously, they fit perfectly, and became my #1 go to pair of jeans. I've worn them religiously since then, or better phrased, wore them like it was a religion.
At approximately 10am, I discover a large un-repairable gash in the backside, where the denim literally wore itself out. A tear was brought to my eye, but I knew this day would happen, so I have chosen to face it with strength and dignity.
I am very thankful for the time we have shared together, and I will never forget the special role my lovely jeans have played in my life.
What i was thinking is kind if nice is that now i have some extra room in my dresser drawer. Room for something new. I got what i needed from these jeans, and i feel complete about moving forward in my life without them.
I was thinking about this in relation to the studio - although i have experimented with different styles - i have been able to let certain things go, and make room for the new stylistic decisions when appropriate. It makes the work better.
In life, maybe you have held on to certain idea of beliefs, and maybe they served you well at some point. But maybe its time to let them go, and make room for some new ones. Just because they served you well in the past, doesn't mean you necessarily need them now.
So maybe think back to those beliefs - one of my favorite advice givers suggested that, for example, telling children "don't talk to strangers" maybe be appropriate at that time - however, it is not necessarily appropriate as we grow older - if we kept this belief we would have a very isolated and lonely life, no?
so be it the jeans, be it artistic styles, be it your thought patterns, can you value what has served you well in the past, but be willing to let go and make space for whatever newness you may need for your present?